So I may not be a girly girl, and I may not know much about what goes on in their heads. But, I can tell you about REAL women. I can tell you about the girls with experience. Especially those who have experienced loss. So, for all the boys ( and you know I love you all) when you stand around and objectify women, I get it. It's ingrained in you; I understand that. But, when you think women like those sorts of things- if you think they like listening to you talk about how you get head like you get groceries- it's not cute. It's not a turn on. Also, just because a girl looks sexy, or if she looks like a bad ass, it doesn't necessarily mean that she's a freak. It doesn't necessarily mean that she likes it rough, or that you can treat however you want. The truth about what women want is just this: WE WANT SOMEONE WHO WANTS US BACK. After all the loss, and all the meaningless sex, we just want someone who will stand by us. Be good to the women who TRULY love you. There won't be more than one or two of them in your life, and believe me- when women truly love, we love with all of our hearts. It's almost tragic, how deep and complex that love can be. The women who are really and truly in love, are also the most excellent actors. We ache so bad sometimes, but you'll never know. So please, please, please if you have a great girl who would give her life for yours, be kind to her. Be her friend. Let her know she matters. Because once she's gone, you're going to hate yourself and so is she.
